As a parent, the things you do and say have tremendous influence on the decisions your child makes. With upcoming graduation, and holiday weekends when families celebrate positive milestones with their children, it is a good time to reflect on celebrating safely.
Research shows that the most effective way to keep youth safe is to engage them in on-going healthy conversations.
- Tell your child you love them and their safety is your primary concern. You want them to have fun, but you also want them to be safe.
- Ask if they have any worries about graduation or year-end celebrations. It can be a source of social stress for some. Encourage them to talk and listen without judgment.
- Ask if there are any post-event celebrations planned. Call or meet the host parents in advance of the party to ensure that they will be home, that they will be actively monitoring their guests, and that alcohol and other drugs will not be allowed.
- Discuss an exit plan. Let your child know that if they are uncomfortable in any situation, they can text or call you, no questions asked, for a ride home.
Teen brains are still developing until the age of 25. During this time the brain is particularly sensitive to the effects of substance use. Impulse control and the ability to make rational and sensible decisions are not well-developed in teens. Alcohol or other drug use during adolescence can be a risky endeavor. In addition, it is illegal to furnish alcohol to anyone under 21. Teaming up as a community makes it easier for everyone. Youth have bright futures, let’s work together to ensure those futures can be realized.
For more information on talking to your teens, social host liability, or treatment resources, visit www.ahealthylynnfield.org.
Peg Sallade
Substance Abuse Prevention Coordinator
Town of Lynnfield/A Healthy Lynnfield
